Ian Callaghan Blog

Welcome to the Blog

This isn’t your average self-help corner.

This blog is for the ones done with numbing, done with hiding, and done with the bullshit.

I’m Ian Callaghan — mindset coach, sobriety mentor, former army lad, and someone who spent over 40 years trying to outrun his pain with booze, bad choices, and labels that never quite fit. I’m now fully sober, sharper than I’ve ever been, and committed to helping others break free — not just from alcohol, but from the conditioning that keeps us stuck.

What you’ll find here is real. No fluff. No shame. No “you should.”
Just straight-talking posts on quitting drinking, rewiring your thinking, and building the life you actually want — one decision, one shift at a time.

If you’re curious about living alcohol-free, ready to rebuild your mindset, or just want to feel a bit more in control of your story — you’re in the right place.

Let’s rise.

Quitting Alcohol After 40 Years: What Actually Works

Quitting Alcohol After 40 Years: My Journey to Sobriety 🍃🍷🚫 Quitting alcohol after 40 years was one of the hardest and most rewarding decisions of my life. For over 40 years, alcohol was a constant in my life. It was there in my highest moments and my lowest, woven...

Fallen Off the Wagon? Here’s How to Reclaim Your Sobriety

Fallen Off the Wagon? Get Back Up and Keep Moving Right. You’ve fallen off the wagon. Maybe it was just one drink, one line, or a full-blown bender. Maybe you woke up feeling like a train wreck, or maybe you barely remember what the hell happened. Either way, you’re...

Addiction and Mental Health: Break Free and Reclaim Your Life

SURVIVING THE SHADOWS: Overcoming Addiction and Mental Health Challenges with Small Wins 4 AM and the Echoes of the Past Addiction and mental health challenges often collide in the quiet hours of the night. At 4 AM, the world is still, yet the mind seems determined to...

My Sobriety Journey: The Brutal Battle I Never Expected

Introduction: The Battle I Never Saw Coming My sobriety journey didn’t begin with some dramatic wake-up call—no drink-driving charge, no lost job, no one moment where it all fell apart. Instead, it was a slow, creeping realisation that I was losing a war I didn’t even...

Sobriety My Way: Finding Freedom Beyond the 12 Steps

My Journey to Sobriety: Beyond the 12 Steps My path to sobriety wasn’t paved with the traditional 12 steps. While I respect the program’s success for many, it didn’t resonate with my personal beliefs. As a Reiki Master and someone deeply connected to my spirituality,...

How to Quit Drinking in the UK: A Sobriety Guide

How to Quit Drinking in the UK: A Recovery and Sobriety GuideQuitting drinking is a deeply personal journey—one that can feel overwhelming and isolating yet also life-changing in the best ways. If you’re looking to break free from alcohol addiction or live a...

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